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EventsWashington Biography GroupNext official meeting: Monday September 20 Washington International School, 7 pm sharp. Topic for September What I did during other people's summer vacation (the traditional topic for our back-to-school-and-business meeting) Topic delayed until later in fall: How do we determine our subject's world view? What are the dominant characteristics that shape what we think of them ? Their religion? Where they grew up? What else? The summer social at Kristie Miller's is Sunday June 13, 4 to 7 pm Get directions from Pat's WBG e-letter. The WBG meets once a month, usually on a Monday from 7 to 8:45 pm at the Washington International School 3100 Macomb St., NW Washington DC 20008 We meet in the Terrace Room in the main building. Members often bring a snack or drink to share. I (Pat) send out e-mail notices of the meeting dates and topics, which are also posted under “Events” on both Pat McNees’s website (www.patmcnees.com) and Writers and Editors (www.writersandeditors.com). Check out the website page about the Washington Biography Group (WBG). Go here for fuller instructions on where the WBG meets. To be added to the e-mail list and receive meeting notices and Pat's e-letter about memoir and biography, send a message to Pat's WBG email: (spelled out to elude spammers: washingtonbookgroup at gmail dot com Convert that to traditional e-mail formula) Occasionally parking is a slight problem, if the school is also holding an evening event. At a recent meeting someone came in and said the owner of an SUV had left its lights on. Marc responded, "This is not an SUV kind of group" and sure enough, it wasn't one of us (although there are SUVs among us). Pat's Life Stories and Legacy Writing Workshops
6 Wednesdays, September 8 – October 20 (No meeting October 6) 7:15 to 9:45 pm--note slightly later starting time What will be written on your headstone? What will your obituary say? How will you be remembered, and what has your life meant? The goal in this nontraditional workshop of short personal writing is to capture your personal and family legacy for the next generation, the friends and family who will survive you. Knowing that you are writing not for publication but to set the record straight—in your own mind, as much as anything—may liberate you, allowing you to examine with candor your important life choices and experiences, achievements and mistakes, beliefs and convictions. Through a series of exercises designed to open a rich vein of personal material, you will begin the exploration and storytelling that may help you either develop a personal or family history or write a personal legacy letter to your survivors. No whining, no boasting, no name dropping: Just an honest examination of what went on in your life or your family, with an emphasis on fleshing out the characters and stories to be found there. This course, which grew out of the warm-up exercises for Pat's workshop on ethical wills, will encourage you to reminisce deeply: to mine your life (and family) experiences for personal stories, myths, themes, and values. Five Wednesday evening sessions 7 to 9:30 pm Instructor Pat McNees The Writer’s Center 4508 Walsh Street Bethesda, MD 20815 Phone: 301 654-8664 Writer's Center online http://www.writer.org postmaster@writer.org $195 for members, $215 for nonmembers You can e-mail postmaster@writer.org and ask to be notified when workshops go on-line for registration. Include your mailing address and ask for a hard copy of their brochure of workshops. Ask to be put on the Writer's Center's mailing list, to get a printed list of their seasonal workshops. Fall 2010 Conference of the Association of Personal Historians November 3-7, 2010 Empress Hotel (for hotel accommodations) and Victoria Conference Centre (for workshops) in Victoria, BC, Canada Voices of the Elders The Moth: Storytellers Finding Success on Stages Large and Small: Going Solo Gets Crowded by Alex Williams, NYTimes 8-14-09; Songs of Themselves (Jim O'Grady, NYTimes, 11-14-08); and The Moth, a nonprofit group that runs storytelling events in New York and Los Angeles.
Here's the dance calendar for Glen Echo Park, where most ballroom dancing goes on in the beautiful Spanish Ballroom, though some dances are held in the fresh-air-conditioned Bumper Car Pavilion (repurposed for dancing during the ballroom's renovation) or in the small but nice "Back Room" (behind the Spanish Ballroom), where Blues Dancing is now taught. For those who miss the old LaSalle Orchestra, there's good news: The once-a-month Sunday afternoon tea dance now features the Hot Society Orchestra, which plays music from the '20s, '30s, and '40s: foxtrot, waltz, two-step, cha cha, swing, rumba, etc. This group is brand new to Glen Echo and plays very danceable music! For more dancing in the capital area, check out the information and schedules at • Dancing: A Guide to the Capital Area • DC DanceNet • Dave Moldover's excellent site (especially for country, hustle, hand dancing, & West Coast swing) • Capital Tangueros • Fools Night Out (Scott Mitchell's site, good for Cajun/Zydeco, Latin, Swing, and other dancing, plus venues for blues, swing, rockabilly, zydeco, and occasionally Latin, Ska, and Cajun music) • Contra Dancing • Irish céilís and set dances • Folk dancing Writing a Legacy Letter If you had only one hour to live and the only way to communicate with survivors was to leave them a letter, what would you write -- and to whom would you write it? Events like Hurricane Katrina and the shocking mass murder at Virginia Tech remind us of the fragility of life. This workshop will help you figure out what personal messages, stories, or life lessons you want to leave for those who survive you. Often written in the form of a loving letter, the legacy letter (a version of what some call an ethical will) is a way to explore and articulate who you are, what you have learned in life, what you value, and what you wish for the family members who survive you. Your last will and testament conveys what you want your loved ones to have -- and is legally binding. The legacy letter is an informal message that conveys what you want your survivors to know--which may include how you want to be remembered, what you cherish and regret, what you forgive and apologize for, what you loved (maybe even chuckled about) about your loved ones, and other important things you would not want left unsaid should you die unexpectedly. Nothing scheduled yet The Writer's Center 4508 Walsh Street Bethesda, MD 20815 Phone: 301 654-8664, Fax: 301 654-8667 http://www.writer.org email: postmaster@writer.org http://www.writer.org/index.asp (online info and registry) Writing a Legacy Letter Code for registering: SU07NON51B Members $50; nonmembers $65 |
Books, articles, and moreWriting or telling life stories
What is an ethical will? A legacy letter
A loving testament, or legacy letter, sharing your life experiences and lessons with the next generation Michael Kilian's message of hope for a newborn
Read aloud at a memorial service decades later Telling your story
Everyone has a story to tell. What's keeping you from telling yours? Become a storykeeper or personal historian or find one. Pat's writing workshops and presentations
Learn to write articles, reports, ethical wills, or life stories (memoirs and beyond). Eulogy for Eleanor
Mom — hardworking, sassy, and full of surprises Washington Biography Group
Mutual support and discussion An American Biography
Social history through the life of an ordinary Midwestern businessman. Medical mysteries, patient stories, and practical links
The boy in the plastic bubble
John Travolta played the boy in the movie. The real story ended far differently. A bad heart and housemaid's knee
Thin little Marian had a cholesterol problem most people have never heard of. The NIH Clinical Center
You've probably never heard of this national research hospital and clinic. But someone you know may be able to benefit from it directly and all of us do, indirectly. Anatomy of medical error
Prepare for skill-based slips and rule- and knowledge-based errors Dancing, food, good books, and other diversions
Book Groups, Recommended Titles
Favorites of several book groups Bag lunches (attention, parents!)
What is the single lunch-bag item most hated by all children? Caviar
What heightens the caviar experience is the price of those little gray or black sturgeon eggs. Dancing: A Guide to the Capital Area
Links to dancing venues and calendars for the Washington, D.C. area. Dating -- again!
Midlife "first dates" Love at First Waltz (by Cheryl Kollin)
Did she fall in love with the man or the waltz? Swing, lindy, jitterbug, and shag
Also related: jive, hustle, hand-dancing. Buffalo Gap Dance Camp
All the dancing your feet can take Ballroom dance
Choosing a school of dance Portobello mushrooms
The big ones, with dirty stems Contemporary Latin American Short Stories
“A rich, varied, and highly rewarding collection,” says Joyce Carol Oates Ceilis
Ceilis (Irish dancing) Dying, mourning, and other inevitable events
Dying: A Book of Comfort
“This remarkable collection, coming from personal experience and wide reading, will help many find the potential of growth through loss.” —Dame Cicely Saunders, founder of the hospice movement Selections from Dying: A Book of Comfort
For those dying, for caregivers, and for the bereaved Music for funerals and memorial services
Music some have chosen Girls and science
Cool science sites
Cool science sites Why Janie Can't Engineer: Raising Girls to Succeed
Attention: parents, teachers. New Formulas for America's Workforce:
Girls in Science and Engineering
Best practices for teaching science--to strengthen the science workforce. Chicks in academia take on Larry Summers
Some links and a selection A Latina mini-revolution in the computer classroom
File under "things that worked." Practical matters
Learning Styles
Identify children's learning styles and improve their ability to learn. Homework without tears
Six weeks to hassle-free homework. Teens and alcohol
Why parents should be concerned. Scared speechless? Join Toastmasters
Public speaking is a craft, not an art. It can be learned. The truth about dry cleaning
Can you wash it if it says "dry clean"? Selling your diamonds
Fact vs. fantasy Starting a small business
One woman's story. How to buy upholstered furniture
Don't focus on the fabric. Organizational histories
YPO: The First 50 Years
A frank history of the Young Presidents’ Organization. By Design (Crown, the BMW of forklifts)
The little lift truck that could — a story of brilliant marketing in America's heartland. Online Shopping
Great and Unusual Online Shopping
Best places to shop online |